Elsa vs Firebird

We saw the movie Frozen  in December of last year. And like a ghost, it continues to haunt us. 

Dang it, Disney!

Ever since the movie, D talks Elsa, walks Elsa, sleeps Elsa. Hell, she even Elsa's me. 

I tell her to do something, ok, something she doesn't like, and she swooshes her hands in the air and 'freezes' me. Now I can't ask her to do anything, because I am frozen. And if I still do, tears roll out... "You're not letting me be Elsa."

So, I had to come up with something for myself. I am now 'Firebird'. I can melt anything. She didn't believe in my powers, so I had to read out all about her, with 'parental guidance' of course, and she finally agreed.  

 

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So every time she swooshes, I counter swoosh. Every time she freezes stuff, I melt it.  Her dad has yet to figure out who he’s going to be. He’s very strongly inclined to be Superman, but what can Superman do to Elsa’s magical icing powers!

And it's not just at home. All the girls in her class love the Frozen game and all the boys and the teachers are completely drained of the repetitiveness. But somehow, the game continues.

This weekend, I could see D’s obsession with the movie in its true form. She was playing with this 6-year-old boy and she was trying to convince him to play Frozen with her. “It’s for girls” the boy said. “There are no guns or cars in it”
“Well you know what?” D offered, “Why don’t you be Prince Hans and try to kill me?”

She’d much rather face attempts of death on her, than give up on that movie. She wouldn't… Let it Go!

And it really doesn't help that there are more than 39 versions of that song in various languages.

But there is a silver lining... she's opened up to more colors now. Her favorite  is no longer pink. She likes blue!. Oh well!


Image Courtesy:  Disney and Marvel

Long Layover, Short Tips: When the Travel Time Exceeds your Patience

Remembering December:                                                                                                                                                          
When on a vacation to Florida, you prepare yourself for the scorching sun, a cozy time on the beach, a kid stampede in Disney and if you’re lucky, a huge sale of stuff you really don’t need but just can’t resist - somewhere. But you’d never expect a snow storm to ruin your holiday or the climax of your holiday. We didn’t either, so we were in our shorts and summer clothes when we heard of cancellations and delays in flight schedule because of the snow storm in, well, Chicago.

We had a connecting flight from Orlando to Seattle – at Chicago, and this turned out to be a great anti-climax for our otherwise great trip with friends and their little minions.

We spent a total of 20 hours waiting for - our flight, another flight that could have been our flight, the pilot who didn’t turn up and for our final landing. We found our luggage - finally. But since we have this rich experience of being almost lost in transition for almost a day, I thought I’d share our pearls of wisdom for any future incidents that God forbid may befall on you.

Here are some quick tips to help you sail through an unexpected delay, especially when there’s a little kid tagging around:

1.  Stretch your limbs: It’s going to be a long wait. To book ourselves in alternate flight, we had two choices – either stay on the phone with the airlines call center for 3 hours or stand in the line to talk to that elusive customer service rep.  So we decided to divide and conquer. I got on the phone line and DH stood in the actual physical line. Thankfully Disney World had prepared us for long waits and to patiently wait our turn to get on the rides. So this was the practical application of lessons learnt at Mickey Land – just that we weren’t used to waiting through the night.
2.   Let the kids watch TV: Let go. You’re actually left with little options of entertainment. Thank God for cartoons, DD was on her own. She had finished all her activity books waiting for 5 hours for the darned flight, and just as she was about to turn up the crank, we spotted the kids section. Small miracles, really.
3.  If a total stranger offers to watch your child while you go connect with your spouse strategizing on your next steps, take him up. Just keep an eye from a distance, but for the most part – take up the offer. DD talks to everyone and when she struck a conversation with a coupla guys, they were so amused by her, that they offered to watch over her while I caught up with DH to scheme up on possible alternate options. Thanks Brad and Jordan – I hope you guys have reached home safely too.
4.    If there’s no place to sit, because over 3000 flights have been cancelled and people from all those flights are stranded with you, sit down on the floor – it’s ok. You anyhow have to dry clean your clothes and disinfect yourself. Your tush deserves some downtime.
5.    Watch people around you. You are frustrated, but there are simple things around that can bring a smile to your face – a grown man pretending to be Superman, an old couple sharing a romantic kiss, a little child trying to shred the tissue in her hands into pieces. Just take a few minutes and watch.
6.    And try to guess the stories of your fellow travelers.  Maybe there’s someone there who really needs to get back to attend a wedding, maybe someone else just wants to stay stranded with strangers and doesn't want to go back. Keep your brain active – you don’t need caffeine all the time.  Trust me.
7.    Stay alert. They usually don’t announce all flight delays and cancellation, but they do announce flight take off. Even if you’re in the loo, listen to the customer rep on the speaker. You can crib about how shrill her voice was later.
8.   Share your charger and power socket:  Since we’re caught in a place we’re not familiar with, we want to be as prepared and as safe as possible, but that’s not just us; it’s everyone else too. Try to be nice and don’t hog the power socket. Share. Be realistic about the amount of charge your cool phone really needs to help you out of a pickle.
9.   Dance with your child: It’s a stress buster. Your extremely loud child wants attention. She wants you to listen to her. Pause and listen. “Mamma, if the flight is cancelled, what will the pilot drive?” Laugh a bit. Hold your child’s hand and skip and dance and count the number of colored patterns on the carpet. What’s the worst that could happen? You’ll amuse a few fellow passengers. Good job!
10.  Curse a little: Ofcourse, you’re only human. If you need to vent it out, go ahead by all means and yell in a safe area. We don’t want the kids to hear us, but we sure as well want to get it out of our system.
11.Wait for the missing pilot:  When our flight was finally ready, there was no co-pilot. So the flight wouldn’t take off. We were a very accommodating set of passengers - we were ok with just one pilot, but the airline would just not allow the take-off.  The pilot’s absence cost us an additional 4 hours. But given the fact that we had already spent close to 15 hours in the airport, 4 more didn’t seem too much.
12. Wait for your treasure: In all likelihood, your luggage is lost. Stay calm and breathe. If you’re lucky, you’ll get it – in 5 days.  We’re on 2 and counting.

But you’re home! And hopefully you have more stuff than what was in the bag to last you 5 full days.

Welcome back!

The Big O-5!

Things to expect when your daughter turns 5. (Or in my case, what happened, yesterday)
She'll declare - "Today is My Day!"
She'll decide to play Temple Run in the morning, because, "Today is My Day"
She'll want to make a special entrance at school, because, "Today is My Day"
She'll pick out her new clothes and get all the matching accessories and something blue, because Frozen is her current favorite movie and Elsa is who she wants to be - so blue has to be a part of the ensemble. 
She'll choose the songs she wants to hear and play them over and over and over, which is very aptly, "Let it go!"
She'll make you pick the Frozen cake with Elsa, Anna (and correct your pronunciation - 'It's Ona') and Olaf. She does not want any boy characters on the cake. Period.
She'll say "I want a Popsicle and an ice-cream, because I am 5!"
She'll say she wants to go to school only to cut the cake, but will refuse to come back with you, once she meets her friends. 


She'll say she gets to decide where to eat, and she chooses an Ethiopian restaurant that's closed on Mondays. 
But because she decided Ethiopian, and because 5 year olds don't change their mind, she'll still want to go to 'some' Ethiopian restaurant. 
And as soon as she enters she'll see a family with two kids and abandon you. 
She'll sit with them through the whole dinner, because she "loves" them. Yeah, the folks she met 2 mins ago. 
And she'll spend the whole dinner singing songs with the little girl there. 
By the time dinner is over, you and the parents get talking and the little boy you thought was getting bored with the girls' incessant talking surprises you by asking you for a play date. 
She doesn't want to go home and her new friends don't want her to go too. 
So you promise her an episode of Full House that she's so fascinated by lately, She'll immediately wave good-bye to her new friends.
She'll ask you for dessert on the way. "Something really cold and frozen. Because it's my day"
She'll want a tri-colored ice-cream with bubble gum. You say that's just fictitious and she amazes you by spotting one in the store -a tri-colored ice cream to be eaten along with a bubble gum. Aah technicality!
Then she'll want to watch two episodes of Full House. Because .... well you know why.
And you'll have to read 5 books to her, because she's 5 today. 
And she'll wind up in your arms completely exhausted yet wide awake. "If I close my eyes, will my day be over? I won't get to do what I want to do?"
And you want to laugh maniacally at the end of a grueling day and shout "You betcha, little devil!", but instead you say "Everyday is your day, baby. And you will always get to do what you want to do" and quickly add "As long as you don't hurt yourself or others"
And she smiles and says "I love you Mamma, more than infinity." 
And that's a perfect day, right there!